Dear Hope: Netflix and Chill

Dear Hope,Netflix
This guy I like keeps texting me to Netflix and Chill. I just change the subject. I would like to hang out with him, but I’m not into that. I would like to date not just hook up. Am I wrong?
– Kate

Dear Kate,
No, you are definitely not wrong. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to hook up or “Netflix and Chill”. If this is a guy you like, then take the time to get to know him better. The next time he brings it up, let him know it’s not happening. Ask him to do something different. Suggest a movie (in the theater) or to go grab a cup of coffee. Tell him you would like to get to know HIM better.

If there’s a chance for a relationship with this person, then take some time.

He may only be looking to “Netflix and Chill”, so If he says no, then move on. He is not the right person for you.

Whatever happens, you made the decision that was right for you, never feel bad about that.

Thank you for being brave and sending in your question.

Dear Hope

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