Dear Hope: Does He Need a Condom?
My BF and I have been dating for about 9 months. We have been having sex for about the last three months. So far he has always worn a condom, but now he doesn’t want to. He says it doesn’t feel good. We did it once a without one I didn’t feel the difference during sex, but I worried I would get pregnant. Thankfully I didn’t, but I still worry. Does it feel better for him and should I just be ok with that?
If you are going to have sex, he needs to wear a condom. No matter how it feels to him, it will feel a lot worse if either one of you gets a STI (Sexually Transmitted Diseases – General Information) or an unwanted pregnancy. You should make it very clear that you will not have sex unless he is wearing one.
Here is a site with a lot of helpful info. Teens Condom Tips